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TUSCARORA REVIEW 2016
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Dedication – Sandy Toms —
March 11, 1961 – May 1, 2015
O
n May 1, 2015, the FCC family lost a dear family
member when Sandy Toms, Assistant Director
of dining services, passed away. To honor Sandy,
the editorial board of the
Tuscarora Review
is
sharing the words written by her children:
Every day we miss her. She was a support
system, role model, and, without a doubt, the best
mother, wife, and friend. Now she is gone but
certainly not forgotten. Her unconditional love
touched so many people that a sadness is still felt
because of her absence. It didn’t matter if she
knew you for years or minutes, she was always
warm and welcoming. That first week she was gone, we didn’t really grasp the
reality of her not being here. It wasn’t until that first week back to school and
all we wanted to do was call her on my way home. Because that’s what my
brother and I did.
That is something that we share now: how much we miss that call and the
way she knew if something was wrong just by saying “Hello.” You couldn’t hide
anything from her; she was observant and knew someone no matter where we
went. Randy and I couldn’t go anywhere without running into someone who knew
Mom or Dad. And chances are they knew everything about us because if you
knew Sandy Toms, you knew about Sandy Toms, her kids, her devoted husband,
her adoptive daughter Danielle, and her spoiled dog, Tessa. She was a proud
mother & wife who built her life for us. Mom would come home after working all
day & would tell us about her staff and the students she met at FCC and what
they were studying. She took the time to know and care for people, and was a
mother to everyone. It wasn’t uncommon to hear people call her “Mama Toms”
on the regular.
Sandy was a friend to many & had friendships that lasted decades. She was a
support system who was always reliable. It’s hard being without her. I would give
anything just hear her laugh one more time & to see her face. I miss the way her
eyes would smile when she was happy. This was my dad’s favorite part about her.
The love that they had for each other was & still is unparalleled. My brother & I
were lucky enough to see that kind of love. After thirty-three years of marriage, I
saw the love between them grow more & more each day. So as we go on with
our lives, we will always remember that distinct laugh & her smiling eyes, her love
of all things lime green, the love she had for her friends and family, & that warming
presence that was felt when you were around her. We love & miss you Sandy….
Sandy Toms
The Tuscarora Review— Editorial Board & Support Staff
Faculty Advisor
Ramón Jones, Assistant Professor, English
Editor-in-chief
Ryan Slicer
Editorial Board
Stephen James and Paul Stark
Design & Production
Lisa Sheirer, Sheirer Art + Design, Associate Professor &
Program Manager Computer Graphics & Photography
Layout
Wendell M. Poindexter, Professor
& Art Program Manager & Art Center Director
Production Staff
Cheryl Peterson, Academic Office Manager, English Department
Photography
Ryan Slicer, Lisa Sheirer, BradyWilks
Printer
Graphcom Incorporated, Gettysburg, PA
Caitlin Duke,
Beast
— Drawing